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Article #40: American women don't like Asian girls ! Why ?

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Any man who has dated Asian girls who want better treatment.
live in the United States, has witness In a Filipina lady's eyes, men from the
the wrath, jealously and prejudice of West treat women better then men from
American women towards Asian girls. I their country. Is there truth to this?
know I have, as have many of my friends. The feed back I get from the ladies at my
The stereotypical has some merit: website is yes or at least they perceive
American women can't compete against the it to be so.
Asians' sexuality, American women feel I'm sure the social status of your family
threaten and some American women simply makes a difference of how you are treated
think Asians are stealing their men. regardless of your gender, but I'm
These all bear some truth. talking about the average Filipina girl.
My experience is first hand. I dated many The difference is simple. In her country
Asian girls and have heard the comments. what she does for her man or husband is
If we frequent a typical American club, I expected without appreciation.
have had my dates threaten by American Here in the United States, most men come
women in the restroom. In time, Asian to expect a lady isn't required to serve
clubs sprung up in the United States. him, to want to please him, and love him
At an Asian club, American women are for who he is. When an Asian girl does,
welcome. I have never seen an American his appreciation is certain.
lady being threaten by Asians in a For an Asian lady, the man doesn't have
typical Asian club. It just isn't their to be super rich or look like a movie
nature. The crowd in these clubs are star, just treat her well and show his
usually Asian girls and American men. love. It's a merry-go-round with respect
There are many Asian girls in the U.S., and love as it's focal point. She wants
especially from the Philippines. A lot of to please him, he loves her for pleasing
these girls arrived via meeting an him, she loves him for showing he
American G.I. I really don't know the appreciates her love and so on.
percentage, but there is no doubt that All the above words, statements and my
most Filipina girls have a military observations have their exceptions. There
connection in some way. is no doubt, there are bad men in every
They met in the Philippines, got married, country. There is no doubt that some
and came to the United States with their women only are in it for the money or to
military husband. Consequently, you'll get a free pass to the United States.
meet Asian girls in clubs who are These are the exceptions and it is this
married. If you mingle with Asian girls minority that the media and others will
that frequent the clubs for any length of use to blanket a whole culture in a
time, you will eventually meet ladies who negative light. I'm sure most of you have
are unfaithful. seen in print or on the news about "mail
This unfaithfulness is how Filipina girls order bride" scandals or "mail order
are branded as whores by American women. bride" mistreatment as if this defines
This doesn't carry the same stigma for all courtships and marriages that develop
American women who may do the same. through the internet.
Hypocrisy is always evident when If a few instances defines the standards,
behaviors of the two cultures are then just getting a marriage license in
compared. the United States should have a warning
What the American GI has discovered is imprinted in gold. No matter if a couple
now catching on with non-military men. met through the internet or at the
Asian dating sites have sprung up all neighborhood church, you have your share
over the internet. Some of these sites of scandals and mistreatment.
try to exploit the Asians' sexuality. The last culture of experts that needs to
However, there are many Asian girls who be giving advise about how to meet and
want to meet a sincere gentlemen for a marry a women is the United States - is
relationship. there any other country whose divorce
As attractive as Asian girls may be, rate is higher?
American men are also captivated by the The Philippines does not condone online
Asians' behavior towards men. A man's dating sites. For that matter, it is
dream of having a wife who wants to against the law. I'm not going to quote
please him, appreciates his love and their law here, but it has to do with
treasures his efforts in making a home moral issues. Again hypocrisy!.
seems to have been found by American men If the Philippines are so worried about
in the Asian culture. women rights, there are other issues they
You'll hear American men call these could concentrate on besides taking away
values "traditional values" because at a women's right to find happiness, love
one time these were the values that held and a better life for herself.
the American family together. She wouldn't be looking elsewhere, if the
The tired argument about these women Philippine government took care of her
being a servant to their husband, is one needs. Should I complain? Probably not,
sided. Do these women like serving their or most Filipina women would not be
husband? Yes, most do. But not as slaves. joining online dating sites to meet
They are not forced to do so, but have American men.
the desire to please their man out of My objection to this law is how it is
appreciation and love. These girls are used in the Philippines as a political
doing what they want to do. I repeat, vehicle rather then sincere concern for
they WANT to please their man, do things women's rights. Hypocrisy, it is
for him and show their appreciation. In everywhere, isn't it?
turn, these men are happy, want to I started this article to comment on why
provide for their wife and have no desire a lot of American women despise Asian
to look elsewhere for this appreciation. girls. Not all American women, but a lot.
It's chemistry that once prevailed many But the discrimination doesn't stop
years ago in the United States and has there. It is evident in the media,
been lost in the myriad of women rights politics and indeed in their own country.
in American society. The people who are forgotten, are the
Why do Filipina women want to marry a couples themselves. Why not just ask
foreigner from another country? I'm not them? If two people who found each other
going to argue the fact that these ladies are happy, in love and want to be
want a better life. It's probably true. together, why does the media and
I will argue that most women, no matter politician think they know better.
the country, want to marry in to a better More then likely, it isn't about what the
life. Again, it is the hypocrisy of who couple want, but more about politics and
you are that makes a behavior negative or sensationalism to sell news. Take your
not. Most women, in the United States, hatred, your narrow minded views and
need to look in a mirror before judging negative publicity elsewhere and let us
ladies from other cultures. Besides find love - even if we find it on the
wanting a better life, most Asian ladies internet.






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