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Compulsive Eating Alternative: Learning to Eat With Pleasure

Do you allow pleasure from food? Are yourfeelings. See whether you can tune in to the
senses throughly engaged as you eat? Do youplace in your lower belly where your food
fuel your aliveness with each meal or eat towill land. Notice how empty that place
deaden and numb out? Do you eat foods thatfeels.4. Become aware of you body and notice
taste good in your mouth and feel good inwhere you might be holding tension. Notice
your physical body - both now andif you have shallow breathing, a tight belly,
later?Imagine eating in a manner that isa tense back, tight jaws, or elevated
passionate and filled with the pleasure ofshoulders. Breathe into these areas, tune
being alive. What exactly would pleasurableinto what you might be feeling there, and
eating look like? It would vary bygradually allow yourself to relax, knowing
individual, and perhaps even by meal. But Iyou are safe and supported. Place both of
imagine we can uncover some common themes andyour feet on the ground as you prepare to
prototypes of pleasurable eating. I caneat.5. Allow a moment of gratitude for the
think of lots of times pleasure eating wouldenergy (life) you are about to receive. We
be done standing up: Enjoying an ice creamdeserve all of the good things life has to
cone while exploring a new city while onoffer, without having to perform for any of
vacation, mingling at a party while eatingthem. We are deserving individuals by our
finger foods, and the pleasure of eatingvery existence. Remember your place in the
stadium food at sporting events. But let'scycle of life. Remember that by eating you
narrow down our discussion to your everydayare giving yourself life. You have this
indoor eating experiences. What wouldright to have life, to have what you want, to
"normal" pleasurable eating look like? I'llbe supported in your life, to receive
write down my vision and then invite yourselfpleasure, and to be connected to life.
to write down yours.Indoor pleasurable diningConnect with the life of the food you are
would involve sitting down at a table. Aeating and allow yourself to have a feeling
table that is attractive, clean of clutter,of being grounded, of being connected to the
and arranged for multi-sensory diningearth, of being strong, vibrant, and
experience. Look through any formal diningstable.6. Utilize your senses. Before
magazine and you'll see many examples ofeating, use your sense of vision and smell to
elaborate table setting ideas. The tables"connect" with the food. Take another moment
are set with folded napkins, fancy china,to feel the life in the food.7. Allow
decorative stem ware, and colorful tableyourself to accept the food. Take this life
runners. Imagine treating yourself as anforce into your own body so that it might
honored guest, deserving of special china,grow strong and live and help you to fulfill
candles, and even some flowers. You sit downyour destiny. Swallow and notice if you can
for a few minutes to enjoy your food, takingfeel your stomach receiving the food? Notice
a moment to say grace because you realize howif you want to rush and eat the next bite
blessed you are to have this abundance inbefore you have even finished with this one.
your life. Your eyes widen to accept theInhibit this habitual response. Knowing that
visual pleasure of the food. You inhale,there is enough food, you may come to realize
bringing the aroma of the food deep into yourthat you don't need to hold onto to energy or
body. As you eat your food, you chew slowly,stored body fat. There is enough. You are
swallowing each mouthful before taking theworthy of having enough. You can let go and
next. The food begins to pleasantly fill yourelax. Eat your food in freedom. For those
up inside. You stop eating when theof you eating in secret, allow yourself to be
sensations become something other thanseen eating.8. Eating is a way to extract
pleasurable.This is just one idea of how alife sustaining energy from food. When you
pleasurable eating experience might look.eat, you process and absorb the forces of
Take a few minutes and write down your ideanature stored in your food. For example,
of a satisfying eatingplants store light through photosynthesis.
experience:__________________________________Eating food releases the energies and
_____________________________________________nutrients stored in food for your body to
_____________________________________________absorb. In assimilating your food, you
_____________________________________________transfer life into your body.An important
_____________________________________________part of exploring conscious eating is seeking
_____________________________________________balance. When you start connecting with
_____________________________________________food, without making any special effort to
_____________________________________________change your eating, a process naturally
_____________________________________________starts to take place. You'll start to desire
______________CONSCIOUS  RECEPTION  OF  FOODfoods that are abundant and alive, foods that
give you what you really need on the deepest
The purpose of this exercise is to learn tolevel. You begin to notice that food is more
be mindful while eating. It is a method tothan just mouth pleasure . . . there is also
enable us to get back in touch with ourphysical body pleasure. You may recognize
bodies. Allow yourself to try this exercisefoods that drain you and better understand
five times in a period of several weeks, andwhat nourishes, satisfies, and supports you.
your relationship with food will begin toYou learn to honor yourself and support your
change.1. Set aside about 10-20 minutesgrowth by choosing food, food experiences,
during which you won't be interrupted. Makethoughts, and behaviors that nourish and heal
sure to start the experience at a point inyour
your day when you are hungry, but notbody.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
famished. Utilize this exercise at different~~~~~~~~~~~~Helping people let go of
meals.2. Choose a food (or foods) thatself-destructive thoughts, emotions, and
appeals to you on all levels. A food that isbehaviors has been the life work of Dr.
visually appealing. It smells good as youAnnette Colby. Her fascination with the
inhale it. It feels good in your mouth. Andpower of the mind, emotions, spirituality,
it feels good in your body. This food mayand physicality has led her to become a
just be something from your forbidden foodleader in the field of personal growth and
list. Perhaps it's bread or ice cream orconsciousness. She is a valued counselor, and
cake. Then again maybe you'll choose aan inspiring teacher, as well as an
wonderfully appetizing casserole or evenindependent writer, mentor, and guide. She
spinach. What matters is that this is a foodis a highly sought-after trainer with a
you like. Prepare this food and sit downunique ability to inform and inspire
with it in front of you.3. Close your eyesindividuals to open their hearts, love more
and take three deep breaths. Let your bodyopenly, and pursue their dreams.Dr.
relax. Become aware of your thoughts and



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