How to Approach a Thoughtless Person

A "thoughtless" person can be very dangerous towhen we see how a thoughtless person's actions are
ourselves, and unpredictable as well. Thoughtlesspure, without agenda, without consideration or
people are all over the place, we seem to run intocunningness to receive something in return, or save
them constantly these days, and when we do, wethemselves, then our small "self" feels ashamed, and
must be prepared to respond in the appropriatewhen our self feels ashamed, it begins to justify its
manner.cowardly actions.
Perhaps "thoughtless" is not the correct terminologySo how should we respond to these thoughtless
here. When we typically think of a thoughtlesspeople that we run into constantly? I think that we
person, we think of a person who is actually filledshould embrace them - recognize them for the
with thoughts, constant thoughts, and notheroes and heroines that they truly are. But since
thoughtless at all. They are filled with endlessthey are thoughtless, the praise that they receive will
thoughts about themselves, so much so, that therego in one ear and out the other, as will any criticism
is no room for others, or the opinions of others. Thisthat they are in some way irresponsible.
person is filled with himself to the point that he noThey can't help it that they are thoughtless, they
longer notices others, or attempts to help them. Hejust see life differently. They see life as it actually is,
only helps himself. If he does happen to noticenot merely tools for our personal security. The
someone else, it is usually from the standpoint ofthoughtless person envisions all of us as one, and
contempt.whatever they do; it is never considered to be a
But this is not the thoughtless people that I amsacrifice. How could giving up a self, that doesn't
writing about. I am writing about truly thoughtlessexist in a thoughtless person's mind, be sacrificed for
people - people who can see so clearly that they actanything.
without the burden of thought interfering with theirMother Teresa could easily have died in India, and if
actions. You know who they are; the soldier whoshe would have, she would not have felt that she
falls on a grenade to save his buddies, the motherwas any better or different from the children she
who gives her life for her child, our champions in thesaved. This understanding only occurs to thoughtless
movies that so endear us with their selfless actions,people, because thoughtless people are humanity; not
the football heroes that sacrifice all personal safetymerely separate parts of humanity. Did Mother
to help their team win.Teresa care if the children were Catholic, or Hindu, or
But when thought has a chance to interfere, weBuddhist? No, she never asked; she knew that such
become careful. Thought is the protector andunimportant things such as religious beliefs only
architect of our "self," our ego, and as such willmattered with thoughtful people, never thoughtless
hesitate when it comes to selfless action. If Motherpeople. Thoughtless people only worried about their
Teresa wasn't a thoughtless person, she would havefellow human beings.
thought twice about risking her life in a disease riddenSo as meditators, we watch our thoughts, and we
country to help poor kids that could never pay herare constantly asked how we can survive in this
back.world without relying solely on thinking.
Therefore, thoughtless people are a danger to ourI ask in return; have you noticed the world lately,
"selves." The reason they are a danger is becauseone that is completely ruled by thought?