Personal Transformations

The last time I looked, personal transformation wasThey believe that what they do in this lifetime will
not on America's top ten list of achievements.greatly affect their next existence which they now
Success, family, happiness, friends, wealth, respect,have no doubt is real, and although they attempted
health, religious beliefs or spirituality, satisfying work --to be good and generous before their traumatic
these took priority. Our spiritual institutions follow suitevents occurred, it was all playacting and not coming
with the most successful and prestigious requiringdirectly from their hearts, for the heart is where the
little of their flock as far as personal introspection isbank account is. Now they find that their bank
concerned. The prevailing ambiance is one of levity,accounts are no longer in a vault, but in a much more
music and celebration -- seldom one of self-inquiry.secure place.
Permanent, positive transformations are notIf the natural compassion and generosity we express
common; and usually result from flukes or untowardduring our lifetime, without coercion or premeditation,
events of some kind; for example, serious illnesses,affects the quality of our afterlife, what can we do
near death experiences, trauma, or accidents. Theseto instill within ourselves a thirst to affect a continual
are about the only things we can count on thesepersonal transformation toward these virtues? How
days to mystically alter our personalities. We try tocan we resist continuing blindly down roads of worldly
be good, but it just doesn't work. For some reason,accumulations and aspirations that are so subject to
humanity has always had to be dragged, kicking andloss? Any personal transformation would indeed be a
screaming, into a true spiritual life.radical change for us, and probably the reason why
The positive aspect of these shocks and disastersfew make the transition. Without the help of a
that transform lives is that our previous fear andharrowing event, that is.
obsession driven existences are replaced by feelingsWhat's at stake is not only our contentment and
of fearlessness and ease; a fearlessness, for somehappiness presently, but possibly later as well, after
odd reason, that rarely involves dominance overmoving on from this earth. Much is written on this
others. Our new personality, having had its brush withsubject, some saying there are many mansions in
death, now experiences a new bravery thatheaven, and some saying that there are many realms
courageously and easily accepts and handlesto be reborn in. Either way, eternity is a long time --
whatever situation it finds itself in. We have been atwe might find ourselves in a mansion surrounded by
the threshold of annihilation, and it was okay. Actually,our relatives for eternity! That could be interesting,
it was extremely peaceful, and now, with the fear ofespecially if we can barely stand them during a
death no longer hanging over our heads, we not onlythree-day holiday! But kidding aside, we might want
no longer fear death -- we don't fear anything!to end, once and for all, the common suffering and
The fearful ones, those afraid to face death or evenconflict we undoubtedly experience on earth.
the loss of material things, are the ones whoSo the questions come down to these: Although the
overreact with violence. We seldom find the bravesecurity of things and relationships keeps us happy,
seriously indulging in selfishness; actually, we usuallyhow long can we count on it to continue to do so?
find them helping others in whatever capacity theyThings change, when we least expect them to
can. They have simply stopped worrying aboutchange, and there are many dangers in the world.
themselves in their newfound freedom, and as aThen, we might ask ourselves, "Is there something
result, have gained a greater capacity to see thegreater, and if there is, how can we get in touch
needs of others.with that something greater without waiting for a
Those who have had these near death experiencestraumatic event to occur in our life? Is there
or spiritual occurrences will tell you that although theysomething we can do proactively in order to come
can't express or explain what happened, they nowface-to-face with that . . . something, while still living
find that the world has little to offer compared toon this earth?" Yes there is. It's called meditation.
that which they have been mysteriously exposed to.And if we were successful in creating a personal
If we can believe what these people say, and theytransformation in ourselves, will it spread wide enough
are very credible as well as consistent, we mightto transform our religious differences, and then,
conclude that there is more to life than meets themight this spread further to help change the world?
logical eye.If we don't change the world in this fashion, we will
These transformed individuals have acquired a certainchange it with atomic weapons, and once they begin
wisdom, a positive understanding that is perhaps notto fall, all our dreams and goals are over for
spoken of but ingrained into their new personalities.ourselves and for our families . . . for this lifetime.