| One of, if not the main key to being a Law of | | | | reality and more comfortable relations with it. This is |
| Attraction practitioner is for you to enter into a state | | | | useful in manifesting because you are not afraid of |
| of Self-actualization. One of the most straightforward | | | | the unknown and can tolerate the doubt, uncertainty, |
| definitions of self-realization is knowledge of the self, | | | | and tentativeness accompanying the perception of |
| understanding who you really are and what you were | | | | the new and unfamiliar without being shaken. |
| created to be. One dictionary says that it is "The | | | | Self-actualizing persons are not ego-centered |
| fulfillment by oneself of the possibilities of one’s | | | | therefore they understand that most problems that |
| character or personality." What this means is that a | | | | they deal with has more to do with their perception |
| self-actualizing person thrives to be all that they can | | | | of reality than what is actually happening. It is never |
| be. | | | | what is happening as much as the way we choose |
| Dr Abraham Mazola, father of the Self-actualization | | | | to process the situation. This absents of ego also |
| theory, said it this way- | | | | keeps them grounded when it comes to not getting |
| "Self-actualized people seek Autonomy, independence | | | | attached to the material things they attract into their |
| of culture and environment. Self-actualizing persons, | | | | lives. Self-actualized people understand, "I am not my |
| though dependent on others for the satisfaction of | | | | body, I am not the car I drive, the house I live in, my |
| the basic needs of love, safety, respect and | | | | bank account or any other outside thing." |
| belongingness, "are not dependent for their main | | | | Because we are spirit our experience and our reality |
| satisfactions on the real world, or other people or | | | | is created from the inside out not the outside in. This |
| culture or means-to-ends, or in general, on extrinsic | | | | understanding also helps the Self-actualized person |
| satisfactions. Rather they are dependent for their | | | | guard against attachments to material things. In the |
| own development and continued growth upon their | | | | Buddhist religion it says the attachment is the root of |
| own potentialities and latent resources." | | | | all worry and sorrow. We can see that this is true |
| There is much more that we could quote from Dr. | | | | when we think of our own lives. We only worry |
| Maslow, but the process of Self-actualization begins | | | | about those things that we are truly attached to. If |
| with you becoming and observer of your thoughts. | | | | there is no attachment then there is no need to |
| This also includes being in touch with your emotions | | | | worry, fret or complain. This is truly difficult when it |
| as well as seeking to understand, and change when | | | | comes to people. Learning to love without |
| needed, your habits. | | | | attachments can be a great challenge. |
| You have to become what I call the noticer. The | | | | Being a Self-actualized person is so important and if |
| noticer is the part of you that ask you- | | | | you don't get it you will never be able to be a |
| Why did I think that thought? | | | | deliberate attractor. You have to be able to see the |
| Why am I feeling this way? | | | | direct correlation between what and how you have |
| Why do I keep reacting to particular situations in the | | | | been thinking and what you have actually seen |
| same manner? | | | | showing up in your life. This is hard for many people |
| There are many aspects of self-realization that we | | | | to except, but nothing has ever come into your adult |
| could look at, but when dealing with being a Law of | | | | life without an invitation. The invitation that invites |
| Attraction practitioner, the thing that is most | | | | things and situations into your experience is your |
| important is coming to the understanding that you | | | | thoughts, emotions and their corresponding actions |
| are 100% Responsible for the direction of your life. | | | | that have the potential to become habits. |
| Though we are to become the noticer of our | | | | To become a self-actualized person will also force |
| thoughts we must remember we are not those | | | | you to rethink your belief system. There are literally |
| thoughts and we have the power of choice that | | | | hundreds of self-limiting beliefs that we have gained |
| allows us to choose which thoughts we will act on. | | | | through out our life that will hinder us. |
| Though we are the observer of our emotions we | | | | Self-actualization deals with being all that you can be. |
| are not our emotions and like our thoughts we | | | | Self-limiting beliefs are beliefs that limit this process. |
| therefore have the power of choice that allows us | | | | We have to learn to challenge those beliefs if we are |
| to choose how our emotions will be played out. | | | | to star tapping the envelop of our hidden potential. |
| Habits are no different. No matter what habit a | | | | We do this by asking ourselves questions; |
| person has, good or bad, that person is not the habit | | | | What is it that I would like to do that I have made |
| that they have. A habit is a thought that has strong | | | | myself to believe is not possible? |
| enough emotional attachments that we act on it until | | | | What is it that I desire that I have made myself to |
| it becomes a pattern in our life. | | | | believe I can not have? |
| Before you can become a deliberate attractor you | | | | These kinds of questions will begin a process in the |
| have to have a clear understanding that you are at | | | | sub-conscious mind that will literally destroy each |
| your very essence a spirit having an earthly | | | | self-limiting thought addressed. |
| experience in this body and not vise versa. With this | | | | You can start accessing your full potential today. It all |
| understanding we then learn not to place the | | | | starts with the understanding that what you see in |
| importance that we have in the past on this physical | | | | your life is not all that it was meant to be. You are |
| reality. Dr. Maslow says that this gives the | | | | constantly in the process of becoming more. |
| Self-actualized person an efficient perception of | | | | |