Three Veils of Hatred - Religion, Marriage, and Nationalism

A veil hides something. When something is hidden, wethe divorce rate in America is highest in the most
can't see what it is or what it stands for. Therefore,religious areas, for instance in the Bible Belt,
when something is represented for something that itcompared to the northeast.
is not (and many times is opposite of what itIt is self evident that divorce almost always breeds
represents), then we can say that it is veiled; it's realhatred. If you have ever gone through one you will
nature is hidden. Religion, marriage and nationalism areunderstand. That means that about 49 out of 100
represented as good, wholesome values. But is thismarriages in America have bred hatred, not counting
actually true?the marriages still intact where people just can't
Isn't it the norm for an extremist religious person tostand each other but put up with it for one reason
be hateful towards those who don't believe, oror another.
believe differently? And that being the case, isn't itAnd similar to Religion and marriage, mention
normal for these people to then lack the capacity fornationalism and emotions immediately heat up. And
forgiveness, even though the veil of religion saysthis is the problem; emotions replace intelligence.
otherwise?Nationalism, per se, - that possessive feeling of "my"
And if we are hateful, unforgiving, doesn't that meancountry - is all about feeling and never about
that we have no capacity for love, compassion,common sense. Discussing governmental policies or
gentleness, kindness and happiness towards others,what we should do as people living under certain
even though the veil of religion says otherwise? Andcustoms, laws, traditions and mores is one thing, but
if this is the case, wouldn't one conclude that thisto worship a symbol, be it some cloth that we have
kind of religion, which I posit is the predominate kindidolized as a flag, or an iconic image in our minds,
in America, be false and harmful to society?leads to emotional reaction, and emotional reaction
If religion, instead of making a person humble,always leads to actions that are fragmented and
accepting, kind and generous; makes one haughty,incomplete because emotion takes over when
conceited, all-knowing and controlling, what have weintelligence is exhausted.
as a society gained by religion? And what has thoseWhen we zealously, out of fear, advise a youngster
that are religious gained when they are veiled fromto go and fight for his country, we are appealing to
their true actions and just kidding themselves? Theyhis or her emotions so that they don't pause for a
have certainly not gained heaven or anything close tomoment to consider all the political and economic
heaven, and maybe even gained hell.ramifications involved. This is justified if an enemy is
Religion is connected to marriage because marriageon our doorstep, but if the conflict is politically or
involves certain ideals such as love, truthfulness,idealistically generated, if the nationalism is just a ploy
fidelity, trust, and commitment. How many peopleto keep people confused and ignorant about the
can truthfully say that they are up to this? Maybe,economic unfairness and class injustices, then
like our respective religions, we live the ideals in ourunderneath all of the political manipulation of the
minds but when it comes right down to it, when theinnocent in the name of nationalism is hatefulness and
rubber meets the road in a long and close relationship,fear, which is a veil of hatred.
things can and usually do change. The divorce rate inThese three veils have caused humankind untold
America which is 78% Christian is 49 out of 100heartaches, yet they project themselves in deluded
marriages. In Thailand, which is 93% Buddhist, theminds as iconic standard-bearers of all that we hold
divorce rate is 6 out of 100 marriages; the differenceprecious. Is it time to wake up to real human values
most certainly being how each country understandsinstead of veiled icons? Or will we remain asleep
its religious ideals, and actually practices them. Also,forever?