Trying to Figure Out Life (Life Situations - The Usual Mistakes, and How to Avoid Them)

Life... Is life. It's up and down, happy and sad., andyou know? What is it that keeps us from relaxing
nothing is ever guaranteed (except perhaps ourinto life every moment?
eventual demise)! Yet we question life's surprises andThe inner world of thought can create a million
unpredictability as if we are special and are supposeddeaths, in anticipation of one. An entire lifetime can
to be protected from all the bad things that happenbe spent in habitual worry and concern, with the
to other people, And when we are not, whenworry itself probably creating the situation most
something breaks our string of exceptionally goodfeared. This inner world of thought is based upon a
luck, we begin to question life.past that is only a fantasy now, and a future that is
We might ask how a compassionate God would letonly a dream. There is no reality in either realms; the
this happen, and then rationalize that in His wisdom,past and the future. Life is lived here and now.
it's for the best. Or that suffering is indeed a blessingAs a matter of fact, the here and now cannot
(If I remember my bible correctly!) But whatever weharbor fear at all because all fear is future based. But
do, or however we approach a run of bad luck, wewhen we live habitually and neurotically in the
try to figure it out. And in the process, attempt tofantasies of the past and future, not only can we live
figure out life itself.in fear, but also we can live in the opposite extreme!
The mind likes to control things; it's a control freak!By trying to escape our fears, we can live in the
And when we don't understand something, the mindfantasy of false hopes - in an attempt to look past
will pull out all the stops to get a handle on whateverthe realty of the life situation (that everything
the situation is. We do this because we feel insecurechanges).
when there are unanswered questions. Many timesOnly in this moment, which is very fast and cannot
we will turn to professionals for help, or maybe turnbe experienced by the thinking and plotting mind, do
to our religions for answers. But wherever we turn,we find that which will not change. This of course
we will get an answer, and then we will feel a littlerequires looking at the mind in a different way. Only
more secure in a life situation that is anything butwhen we can distance ourselves from our thoughts
(secure)!of past and future, and when we can truly
Facing the fact, (which is obvious) that life is indeedexperience this exquisite moment right here and now,
scary and unpredictable is the beginning of wisdom.only then we can discover true creativity and
Seeing that everything in the universe, beginning withunderstanding in every way - psychologically
a single human being on a quiet street in a small townspiritually, and in life. We no longer have to rely on
in a state and a country and on a small planet, and inothers to tell us about life and the afterlife because
a solar system revolving around a medium sized starwe will know them for ourselves.
among billions of stars that make up the Milky Way,So try to remain in the moment where there is no
our galaxy, and across the universe we know thatfear (meditation can be a first step). Take a look
there are billions upon billions of galaxies, and weinside for a change - at your constant thoughts,
have not found the end of our universe yet, letwhich breed worry and take you out of your
alone figured out eternity.... and in all of this, andprecious moment of real freedom. And your hard
perhaps in all the countless universes that there mayopinions and judgments that create such negative
be and whatever else may be out there in materialemotions and the need for you to control and be
existence,... it all falls under the universal, physical lawright all the time creating and shoring up an ego which
that everything is in flux, continuously. Everythingis only a false construction of thought (It's so much
changes and we can't really count on anything, evenwork!) And then put all that aside for a moment and
though we really believe that we can control thingsexperience true freedom in a moment without those
by natural intelligence, or supernatural favor.things, maybe for the first time in your life - free
So, rather then trying to understand life, or rationalizefrom concepts an ideas.
it away through our doctrines and beliefs, what if...Such a moment might just change your entire life
we just relaxed into life, regardless of what lifeexperience, and for that one precious moment, there
throws our way? Why do we refuse to do that? Dois an extra bonus - you don't have to figure out life!